LOVE : a mirage of ourself
Why we always get attract to the person who is moreover like us not to the most beautiful nor with the higher IQ. But the one who makes mistakes like us who is as dumb as we and who makes us smile.
Science says , love is a chemical reactions of brain when we fall in love with someone our brain releases the secretions of "oxytocin" and we feel pleased and happy and it happens whenever we see that person and we relate love as our heartbeat, that increases when we get close or even remembers the person(of course its also related to brain). So that's also definition I think.
But the question is why we love not to the more beautiful or smart person than ourself but to the person who looks like the other half of ourself?
When we talk with someone we talk about the subjects that we like and when both likes the same, the talk goes on and on, we spend much time and shear everything with that person by time, that gets us close but if someone is more informative about everything we can't even want to talk with the person.
The love grows with time we spend. We have to bold in talk so we can admire her or make fun of and that happen when we don't feel ourself less than her because the more we think she have something more we afraid of losing her and more we become less honest with her.
Honesty is something that both has to shear the more they honest about each other decisions and feelings the more they built trust and the bond becomes strong.
We can't be honest if we afraid to or not want to lose to someone and we always nodded in front of that person but later on this makes someone superior and this feeling destroy our feelings or our relationship.
That's why we always want the person to whom we are not afraid to lose or to offend her because love is not by how perfect couple we look but its about how perfect we make balance in everythings and then just like someone says,"And the life goes on".
Science says , love is a chemical reactions of brain when we fall in love with someone our brain releases the secretions of "oxytocin" and we feel pleased and happy and it happens whenever we see that person and we relate love as our heartbeat, that increases when we get close or even remembers the person(of course its also related to brain). So that's also definition I think.
The love grows with time we spend. We have to bold in talk so we can admire her or make fun of and that happen when we don't feel ourself less than her because the more we think she have something more we afraid of losing her and more we become less honest with her.
Honesty is something that both has to shear the more they honest about each other decisions and feelings the more they built trust and the bond becomes strong.
That's why we always want the person to whom we are not afraid to lose or to offend her because love is not by how perfect couple we look but its about how perfect we make balance in everythings and then just like someone says,"And the life goes on".
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